I just became a widow and am surrounding myself with positive advice. That of the butterfly is very appropriate and timely. Take time to smell the flowers.... tells me its okay to let some things go for now. Look for sweetness in life... to focus on the nature around me and the wonder of it all; and being spring, there are nests being built and young animals scurrying around.
I know she will love this. She has been working with bees for many years.